I’m pretty sure I was smarter at the age of 15 than I was most of my adult dating life.

Wouldn’t life be simple if you could just follow these rules? Even at 30 years old, I find myself struggling with one or two of these. I say forget the saying, “see the world through a child’s eyes,” more people should DATE the world through a child’s eyes! Forget the complications, social media, and rumors that complicate relationships. Think like my 15 year old self and stick to the basics.

1. Always be yourself; don't try to be perfect just so they don’t get mad.

2. Let them know how you feel.

3. Don’t be jealous about everything; sit back and think of stuff you do that may look like flirting but means nothing.

4. Don’t forget your friends because they’re the ones that are comforting you when it’s over.

5. Always try your best to be friends after the break-up.

6. Don’t let them do whatever they want. If you think it’s wrong and you disagree-tell them.

7. Try your best to get together with them.

8. Understand that they need space. If you don’t talk to them ONE time don’t assume something is wrong.

9. Let them know how good they look. Don’t you feel so good when they tell you that?

10. Always tell the truth - if you did something wrong chances are they will find out anyway & it’s better if they hear it from you.